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Hanging with B

Dear B, What do you do when your friend is dating a “loser” and she’s happy but you know he’s not good for her, and maybe using her. Our friends are starting to avoid her cause they think her bf is a jerk, and she doesn’t understand. I don’t wanna watch my friend waste her time and lose friends and …

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Hanging with B

Dear B, I am moving away for school/job. Should I stay with my partner or open myself to new experiences? ‎Jeff Hey Jeff, Wait, your partner is not moving with you? Do you plan to be in a long distance relationship? This is tricky because if you and your partner do not maintain daily conversation and skype sex then your …

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Hanging with B

Dear B, How long do you have to date someone before you can broach the “relationship” question? C. Hey C, That really depends on the how the relationship is going. Really if you are unclear on if you can bring up the topic then you guys are for sure, not there yet. That question can mean different things for different …

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Hanging with B

Dear B, Is it OK for your current boyfriend to still have a relationship with his ex’s kid(s)? Paige Hi Paige, Why would it be wrong? See, I can read right through this question and what you really want to say is “Is it ok for your current boyfriend to continue to play house with his ex and her kids, …

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Getting To Happy

‎Recently broke up with my partner of 10 years. It was my choice, but it still sucks. He had been putting his life and happiness on hold bc of family problems and I, essentially was also putting my life and happiness on hold for him. It came to the point where I had to make a choice, keep waiting until …

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Keeping Secrets

“I’ve just found out I have herpes (STI) from a partner years ago. Do I have to tell my current/next partner or shall I just hope that I don’t have a flare up when we’re together? -A Hi A, I’m sorry to hear that you’ve contracted Herpes.  The first thing you need to do is see your doctor to fully …

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Emotional Affair

‎Is an emotional affair just as bad as a physical affair? Emotional affair? I understand what a physical affair is: kissing, rubbing, touching, sex. An affair.  But what do you mean by emotional affair? Do you mean there is NO kissing, NO rubbing, NO touching, NO sex? Is it just flirting, banter, laughter, confiding, texting & emojis? If so, that …

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Resolutions

Hey B, Last year I made all these resolutions and only stuck to one of them. I want to reuse most of them for 2106, like get back in the gym, get a promotion at work, move out of my mothers house, save more money and also travel. This year I want to accomplish all of my resolutions, how do …

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Monique

My ex peter and I were together for 8 years and his son sam lived with us the entire time so he was pretty much my son too. We broke up in 2011 but I stayed in Sam’s life and continued to provide for him by getting school supplies, Christmas & birthday gifts, anything he needed really. Peter is in …